The human error codes

human error codes

In analogy to the computer error messages human common (innocent) conduct errors may be coded. This may help one to note his/her conduct errors so that it may help avoid them by time. It is to be noted that the mentioned errors don’t explicitly include faults like some bad morals or habits, e.g. egoism or selfishness, as those may need other tools for their cure.

Category Code Error Remarks
1 Sleep and work (6) 100 Sleep time and place

This category concerns physical health and productivity. Work charity means helping colleagues and others in their needs.

110 Work time plan
111 Physical activity time plan
112 Less tolerated work/activity
113 Work reward balance
114 Work charity
2 Budget (5) 200 Global budget scheme

Here the financial status is analyzed. One should also care about help from others (external reserve). Money charity is to help others too.

210  Global order; Note stuff (paper shreds)
220 money/time internal reserve
221 External reserve
222 Money charity
3 Food and drink (2) 300 Food and drink This is about healthy eating and toilet habits.
310 Toilet and humanitarian needs
4 Hygiene and outlook (3) 400 Internal hygiene Physical hygiene: personal, look and objects.
410 External hygiene
420 Place hygiene
5 Taking notes (1) 500 Taking notes A written note/registry.
6 Thinking and views (8) 600 Age concept

Here are 8 points in one’s way of thinking and self-management.

610 Negative memories (past)
620 Perspectives (future)
621 Illusive goals
622 Illusive challenges
630 Self-image
631 personal advancement
634 matter-spirit balance
7 Morals (4) 700 Patience Reaction-ability means to take an appropriate and adequate response in time.
710 Courage
720 Self-containment
730  Reaction-ability
8 People (7) 800 Tolerance Be tolerant as much as you can. Don’t judge anybody. Keep your expectations law. Don’t idealize. Learn to appreciate and express yourself unambiguously. Let others know your good sounding, e.g. smile.
810 Judgment
820 Awaiting of good
830 Idealization (persons, acts)
831 Appreciation (persons, acts)
840 Clarity
850 Sounding (affection)
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Making relationship in 8 steps

Are you married or in a relationship? In either case I would like to review with you the steps in making that accomplishment.

1) The encounter, 2) the initial impression, 3) the interest, 4) the decision, 5) the clang, 6) the definite impression, 7) the start and 8) the progression

1 At the encounter step you see the person for the first time and this commonly happens by chance or pre-noted by somebody.

2 Automatically you have a first impression about that person like: no impression at all, weak good impression, good positive impression, very good or negative.

3 Then interest may come or not. The interest step means that you saw or learned something that makes you sympathizing with that person. This interest is quite personal and concerns the values and views of you like abstract meanings (courage, passion, generosity, delicacy, fear, weakness, etc.). You feel that you may help this person in some way or that person may fill a gap or fulfill a mercy in you.

4 The decision means the question whether to dare it or not; would I tell that person that I would like to know more personally of him/ her? This is indeed a very difficult and delicate step. On making this decision many things interact like time, conditions, place, duties and personal resolution. However, this step should not be that overwhelming, though very sensitive, because it is only halfway of the route; there are still 4 steps ahead. To know if you got the interest of that person try to know the reason and define and analyze that point of interest. A true interest is the one that makes up a genuine component of you so that you like that person with all his/ her problems and drops (deficiencies).

5 The clang!!!!! How your decision presented and what were its repercussions? Sometimes just on making your decision clear you feel that you were wrong and rushed!! The person may also react in appropriately being embarrassed, surprised, shocked or whatever. The clang means if you could go to the next step. The step of that clang is important because it lasts long and may not be overlooked easily. This is why you should be very clever in choosing the way and time to present your decision. In this step I guess that being a bit slow and reluctant may be better than rushing and answer-ready. However, do not forget there are still 3 important steps, it is not done yet. Notice: A first-trial clang may not be that usual!!

6 The definite impression would happen after more frequent rendezvous (of course in the acceptable and approved circumstances such as family visits, public places, coffee breaks, public parties and gatherings, …). While the person is knowingly dealing in this definite impression step you expect to take everything seriously as there could be only 2 steps ahead for your relationship.

7 The start step means you both agreed to start a serious relationship with all its flowers and thorns. You start to set time, arrangements, documents, invitations, announcements, and so on.

8 The progression concerns the longevity of your relationship; fruitfulness, impact and prospects.

Footnotes:

1 A relationship is a relationship. Should you miss some person you liked in a relationship you once thought, more importantly do not miss that person in a relation they may once thought.

2 Learn of your previous genuine faults and deficiencies to bring once your genuine creations and accomplishments.

3 There is always time (never too late) on your believe and vision. Make it from your side and you will be mutually responded.

Life and medicine, reflections

life and medicine, reflections

The common divisor for life and medicine is that they are both ‘easy’.

The problem exists only when we make things complicated while they should not be so. But, on the contrary, a smooth and self-assembled and harmonized cascade of success should be there when we manage – even after quite long time – to lay such noise and artifact aside. You could be a famous and impactful physician because you show the readiness and willingness (sometimes fondness and passion); notice that many people do not show any of that all.

Do not be taken too far by those thick medical books full of ink and texts. These could be written by more than one person and/ or over long times, could be useful and interesting, or they may not contain an answer for your past, present or future curiosity and questions. You are, in every case, not meant to read every paper you find or to understand each word you may have ever heard – though it would be great if you were to do that –. Because, going from the easiness of medicine, you should (or very politely: must) stick to the basics of medicine (or life). This can be the line of demarcation between a trustful and artful physician and those who either dampen in their hesitancy or float in illusions of details and thoroughness: the true basics and ethics.

You deserved it because you knew it in advance; you got its essence and made it in the centre of your consciousness. What, when, why, how and where? It is (or should be) more easy than anyone can believe. As a physician you don’t fix machines but peoples’ health and life, you do not sell books or household goods but convey knowledge and culture, you do not stamp money or create gold but help everybody better appreciate their life and life as a whole.

A physician is a person who goes in life brilliantly and successfully in the best possible satisfaction through the honest practicing of medicine.

Search and Rescue

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My mother, when she was dying, said to me, “There are no wrong answers, Kris.”

She was speaking from the vantage point of someone who has nothing left to lose. Someone with the luxury of looking back on a life filled with worry about making the right choices and realizing, in the end, most of those choices become irrelevant.

I was torn between staying at her bedside and going back to Chicago to take care of my kids. I felt I did not have a choice. My kids needed me. I was the glue in our household. But my mother needed me also.

Recently, I was worrying about the right job, the right parenting, the right financial and life decisions. As I’m sure many of you do. Few of us are immune to trying to game the system for the best results.

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The management of self

Many of us would wait and postpone the setting out of their unusual abilities in management and creativity until some apparent turning points like getting married, having a good job or inheriting a wealth. The postponing time would thus remain a matter of chance and speculation. Other people may not at all be aware that management of life and achieving success is a clear cut outcome of well established rules and definitions. Given the known statement I once had in a school language book: “you are a state in yourself”, one should learn too how to invest and strive to apprehend and exercise those rules of self-management.

The management of self includes everything one may do and would be surmounted by either well being or recession. It includes everything from the way one speaks and eats to the way how to think and evaluate. It includes, accordingly, time management, setting of values and aims, and decision making. With the view of an eagle’s eyes the management of self is the biggest topic under which we may understand our care to get good education and good company, to excel professionally and socially and have an impact that may last after we have left this world. Such information about the optimal handling of one’s resources, the so called the ‘management’ or the ‘marketing’ of self, is crucial for an appreciable conduct in life, and the next step of its rules and details should be a subject of time and/or trial and error.

I know that I may not be the person who could be very helpful in discussing this basic life item as I need to learn it too. However, I could convey a few advices I have just read in reading book for prep school: 1) be generous to others, 2) take it easy, 3) think good about others, and 4) do not exaggerate in punishing others. From my personal notices; I realize that the very personal view and impression of the individual would determine the way in which he/ she acts. That’s why it is important to determine and define which kind of person one would like to be: a noble, tight-fisted, depraved or trivial. A noble person is a one who willingly treats people generously and good. Tight-fisted is the person who won’t be good unless to face an expected loss or shame. Depraved is the one who intentionally and persistently does bad. Trivial is a person who crudely and undetermined doesn’t do good and he/ she may not do it under any case. Each one of these four person types could have almost typical attributes considering values, ideas, aims, interests and conducts.

Very relevant to the management of self are the motives and drives. These could show and provide many embarrassments especially for those who wish to live as nobles, because they may be a common place for defects and weakness. Embarrassments could happen when they faithfully and nobly consider an issue that may not be considered at all as wisely placed by others. And the weakness could be when they grow a lot of fear that shadows their deeds and hampers their progress. In situations where fear would be an element one has to distinguish between courage (opposite of fear) and prudence (wisdom) from one side and fear and defeat from the other.  In other words, in order to beat your ‘sweeping’ fear does not mean to dispense with your wisdom and its ‘decent’ courage. Because in many situations being wise and prudent can dictate the same act as that of being fearful though the motives in the two cases are absolutely different.

The Lucky Gatherer

What should “games” add to this medical blog? They may attract more people especially those who do not have medical background or interests. Of course, posting an interesting item for the public may not be an easy job, but the question always is how fine and useful that idea or post could be.

Indeed, computer games did give me here some inspiration. Now with some reflection, playing games may have healthy aspects other than spending a pleasant time. Let’s discover this view together.

Introduction

A healthy human should not only keep defending against bad things that would make disease and discomfort but also have the initiative that would help achieving goals like enjoying agreable social life and making his/ her own family. Here, this game “The Lucky Gatherer” would help us understand and appreciate this aspect.

Players

Many players are expected to share in the game, but for necessity reasons a single player may also be practical.

Mode of the game

The mode is quite flexible where face masks, pictures or name cards can be used. Of course, game computerizing is also fine.

Tips

The lucky gatherer will walk around, or even travel or fly to quite distant lands, in very different and contrasting nice and attractive places, e.g. garden, shops, parks, cafes, etc. The rewrads and surprises gathered in each place will depend on the appropriate qualities the lucky gatherer would think of within 3 seconds.

Score

The player has a fortune of zero at the beginning of the game. Gathering 5-45 points means unsatisfactory; 50-85 considerable; and 90-100 big fortune and winning the game.

Qualities (their benefit potential); and example of a corresponding situation

1- A shining smile (+5); on walking up in the morning.

2- A nice body language (+5); on giving a speech at work-place.

3- Simply and elegantly dressed (+5); on going out for shopping.

4- Teeth brushed few days ago but still fine (+5); on going for an appointment.

5- Voice is full of courage and passion (+10); on talking to somebody.

6- Help needy people even when not asked for help (+10); in a public transport vehicle.

7- Being a good listener (+10); somebody introduces him/herself.

8- Give complement in right time and place (+10); during a conversation.

9- Give opinion openly, quietly and politely (+10); a discussion with family members.

10- Share mind  in public, quietly and politely (+10); a discussion in service auto.

11- Being interested in people (+15); in the work place.

12- Have personal demands always in mind (+15); on going out in a picknic.

13- Think of many things together but do one at a time (+15); on going out for a visit.

14- Keep notes for plans and ideas and revise these regularly (+15); in the rest time.

15- Can live alone but like to have companions (+20); in daily life activity.

16- Have a good access to outside world (+20); on dealing with customers.

17- Read effectively (+20); in free time.

18- Know other languages (+20); on watching TV.

19- Have high work/time efficiency (+20); in daily life activity.

20- Able to learn and advance (+20); on deciding for a new job.

21- Learning from past mistakes (+25); on dealing with other people .

22- Benefit from point of views of others (+25); on doing professional tasks.

23- Work on understanding own needs (+25); on choosing a partner.

24- Keen on priorities and work on them timely (+25); in a shopping.

25- Making decision in time and accomodate consequences (+30); on guessing your interest in somebody/ something.

26- See well around and grasp quickly place and time provisions (+40); on attending a social ceremony.

27- Being passionate and practical (+40); on expending money.

28- Making many good friends(+50); along with daily life events .

Miracle of the handicapped

Our world doesn’t give every thing we wish for ourselves. Indeed, obstacles and cares are almost always there. Paying attention to one’s sincerity should provide a clue to the answer of this suffering. In other words, it’s as worthwhile to look for sentiments as for physical work. Bearing in mind that every person is somehow handicapped makes sincerity again a wish for every fairly doer. Consequently, the outcome of every effort is almost a generous reward for one’s good sentiments.

Why shouldn’t we shed tears if this would refine our feelings and enrich our spiritual recources? True tear shedding may be a promise of fulfilling a word and satisfying a feeling of necessity. For those passionate persons it means hope, love and achievement. Of course, one is not all the time willing or ready to weep, but this action requires certain prerequisites among which are physical fitness and self perception. In my opinion, a healthy and lucky person would need to shed tears even once monthly. In this context, weeping or tearing is a means of self renewal and emotional ventilation. Besides weeping, there are self criticism and nullification, cheerfulness and team-work adoption as a means to empower one’s capabilities.

Such philosophical analysis of man’s natural handicap may encourage a rather romantic life style and raise passion over prosperity. Meanwhile, we should recognize that passion is a supporter of all high values like fairness and productivity. This would be a passionate person in a right sense. Sometimes, sincerity does stand helpless when a general envision is damping, while instant physical impulses predominate the scene. This is quite a pit that would soon vanish at the first shine of light by virtue of the good intention and passionate behavior. This is a proof of the moral-physical interplay in our lives and that sincerity is the only hope for man to progress and advance.