The human error codes

human error codes

In analogy to the computer error messages human common (innocent) conduct errors may be coded. This may help one to note his/her conduct errors so that it may help avoid them by time. It is to be noted that the mentioned errors don’t explicitly include faults like some bad morals or habits, e.g. egoism or selfishness, as those may need other tools for their cure.

Category Code Error Remarks
1 Sleep and work (6) 100 Sleep time and place

This category concerns physical health and productivity. Work charity means helping colleagues and others in their needs.

110 Work time plan
111 Physical activity time plan
112 Less tolerated work/activity
113 Work reward balance
114 Work charity
2 Budget (5) 200 Global budget scheme

Here the financial status is analyzed. One should also care about help from others (external reserve). Money charity is to help others too.

210  Global order; Note stuff (paper shreds)
220 money/time internal reserve
221 External reserve
222 Money charity
3 Food and drink (2) 300 Food and drink This is about healthy eating and toilet habits.
310 Toilet and humanitarian needs
4 Hygiene and outlook (3) 400 Internal hygiene Physical hygiene: personal, look and objects.
410 External hygiene
420 Place hygiene
5 Taking notes (1) 500 Taking notes A written note/registry.
6 Thinking and views (8) 600 Age concept

Here are 8 points in one’s way of thinking and self-management.

610 Negative memories (past)
620 Perspectives (future)
621 Illusive goals
622 Illusive challenges
630 Self-image
631 personal advancement
634 matter-spirit balance
7 Morals (4) 700 Patience Reaction-ability means to take an appropriate and adequate response in time.
710 Courage
720 Self-containment
730  Reaction-ability
8 People (7) 800 Tolerance Be tolerant as much as you can. Don’t judge anybody. Keep your expectations law. Don’t idealize. Learn to appreciate and express yourself unambiguously. Let others know your good sounding, e.g. smile.
810 Judgment
820 Awaiting of good
830 Idealization (persons, acts)
831 Appreciation (persons, acts)
840 Clarity
850 Sounding (affection)

Making relationship in 8 steps

Are you married or in a relationship? In either case I would like to review with you the steps in making that accomplishment.

1) The encounter, 2) the initial impression, 3) the interest, 4) the decision, 5) the clang, 6) the definite impression, 7) the start and 8) the progression

1 At the encounter step you see the person for the first time and this commonly happens by chance or pre-noted by somebody.

2 Automatically you have a first impression about that person like: no impression at all, weak good impression, good positive impression, very good or negative.

3 Then interest may come or not. The interest step means that you saw or learned something that makes you sympathizing with that person. This interest is quite personal and concerns the values and views of you like abstract meanings (courage, passion, generosity, delicacy, fear, weakness, etc.). You feel that you may help this person in some way or that person may fill a gap or fulfill a mercy in you.

4 The decision means the question whether to dare it or not; would I tell that person that I would like to know more personally of him/ her? This is indeed a very difficult and delicate step. On making this decision many things interact like time, conditions, place, duties and personal resolution. However, this step should not be that overwhelming, though very sensitive, because it is only halfway of the route; there are still 4 steps ahead. To know if you got the interest of that person try to know the reason and define and analyze that point of interest. A true interest is the one that makes up a genuine component of you so that you like that person with all his/ her problems and drops (deficiencies).

5 The clang!!!!! How your decision presented and what were its repercussions? Sometimes just on making your decision clear you feel that you were wrong and rushed!! The person may also react in appropriately being embarrassed, surprised, shocked or whatever. The clang means if you could go to the next step. The step of that clang is important because it lasts long and may not be overlooked easily. This is why you should be very clever in choosing the way and time to present your decision. In this step I guess that being a bit slow and reluctant may be better than rushing and answer-ready. However, do not forget there are still 3 important steps, it is not done yet. Notice: A first-trial clang may not be that usual!!

6 The definite impression would happen after more frequent rendezvous (of course in the acceptable and approved circumstances such as family visits, public places, coffee breaks, public parties and gatherings, …). While the person is knowingly dealing in this definite impression step you expect to take everything seriously as there could be only 2 steps ahead for your relationship.

7 The start step means you both agreed to start a serious relationship with all its flowers and thorns. You start to set time, arrangements, documents, invitations, announcements, and so on.

8 The progression concerns the longevity of your relationship; fruitfulness, impact and prospects.

Footnotes:

1 A relationship is a relationship. Should you miss some person you liked in a relationship you once thought, more importantly do not miss that person in a relation they may once thought.

2 Learn of your previous genuine faults and deficiencies to bring once your genuine creations and accomplishments.

3 There is always time (never too late) on your believe and vision. Make it from your side and you will be mutually responded.

The management of self

Many of us would wait and postpone the setting out of their unusual abilities in management and creativity until some apparent turning points like getting married, having a good job or inheriting a wealth. The postponing time would thus remain a matter of chance and speculation. Other people may not at all be aware that management of life and achieving success is a clear cut outcome of well established rules and definitions. Given the known statement I once had in a school language book: “you are a state in yourself”, one should learn too how to invest and strive to apprehend and exercise those rules of self-management.

The management of self includes everything one may do and would be surmounted by either well being or recession. It includes everything from the way one speaks and eats to the way how to think and evaluate. It includes, accordingly, time management, setting of values and aims, and decision making. With the view of an eagle’s eyes the management of self is the biggest topic under which we may understand our care to get good education and good company, to excel professionally and socially and have an impact that may last after we have left this world. Such information about the optimal handling of one’s resources, the so called the ‘management’ or the ‘marketing’ of self, is crucial for an appreciable conduct in life, and the next step of its rules and details should be a subject of time and/or trial and error.

I know that I may not be the person who could be very helpful in discussing this basic life item as I need to learn it too. However, I could convey a few advices I have just read in reading book for prep school: 1) be generous to others, 2) take it easy, 3) think good about others, and 4) do not exaggerate in punishing others. From my personal notices; I realize that the very personal view and impression of the individual would determine the way in which he/ she acts. That’s why it is important to determine and define which kind of person one would like to be: a noble, tight-fisted, depraved or trivial. A noble person is a one who willingly treats people generously and good. Tight-fisted is the person who won’t be good unless to face an expected loss or shame. Depraved is the one who intentionally and persistently does bad. Trivial is a person who crudely and undetermined doesn’t do good and he/ she may not do it under any case. Each one of these four person types could have almost typical attributes considering values, ideas, aims, interests and conducts.

Very relevant to the management of self are the motives and drives. These could show and provide many embarrassments especially for those who wish to live as nobles, because they may be a common place for defects and weakness. Embarrassments could happen when they faithfully and nobly consider an issue that may not be considered at all as wisely placed by others. And the weakness could be when they grow a lot of fear that shadows their deeds and hampers their progress. In situations where fear would be an element one has to distinguish between courage (opposite of fear) and prudence (wisdom) from one side and fear and defeat from the other.  In other words, in order to beat your ‘sweeping’ fear does not mean to dispense with your wisdom and its ‘decent’ courage. Because in many situations being wise and prudent can dictate the same act as that of being fearful though the motives in the two cases are absolutely different.

Landing on self’s moon

landing on the self's moon

A wonder maybe perceived as such on the basis of its rarity rather than its fascination. For example, walking on own feet and seeing with own eyes are considered as basic provisions despite the marvelous coulisses of their occurrences. Being on board either on the land or in the air is also gradually becoming common sense though they were one day typical scenes of man’s sweet dreams. A sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, though with varying impact and extent, is always the common subjective factor of all these customary wonders. The wonder is being perceived as such as it calls an inherent ability to judge and rank and as it touches a readily ignitable complement of perception. In conclusion, the wonderful things that attract our attention and awake our interest are not only wonderful in themselves but also they need to find their labile candidates of sufficient priming and attentive perception.
In the vestibules of self there should be the greatest wonder and the sweetest triumph. A pleasant glory may be sensible with some reflection and admirable faith rather than with a fanciful wealth and tiresome sophistications. A vector of passion and altruism, a cruise of generosity and forgiveness and a trajectory of hope and optimism make a brilliant path of self’s genius profile. This would be the moon one should land on first.

A first lesson in love

a first lesson in love
The smart and noble looking teenager, though still in his 14th year, looks much adult in both his stature and way of thinking. He feels much responsible and takes on his academic career as a matter of life or death. Intelligent and unchallengeable goes the compulsive super pupil from a year to the next in the prep school. The life conqueror is getting by time more confident that he deserves a better life, in terms of financial and social aspects, than the modest one he used to have. And therefore, he holds firmly on a self-imposed oath to be straight and to obtain high degrees and honors. On the way for his goal, he listened carefully to the moral and ethical constants in his community which he saw almost reasonable and natural.

Among the trivialities that the growing idealist has to overlook is the ever increasing behavior of needless talks and claiming love among school boys and girls. According to the way he was brought up, he saw such things ethically unacceptable and childish or shameful. “Those pupils cannot be serious, because it is too early to think about love”, he thought, “This heavenly demand should be sought in a community-approved way and by people warranted to bear such a responsibility”. It was, thus on this conservative background, quite manageable for a faithful and ambitious young man to contain such nascent instincts of this age period.

While studying his lesson on the roof of the house at the midday came to him the daughter of a good neighbor of his. The girl gave him a small piece of paper in which she wrote by a pencil the famous statement of announcing love and appreciation: I love you. The little girl, while giving the note, stared seriously at him and never spoke any word. The girl was so little that he perceived her initiative quite neutrally. He could already find her big excuse as he saw himself as a true idol; “still so young for such commitment rather.”

The actively studying pupil was impressed by the character that very keenly imposes herself and writes her first words of love, if not her first written words ever. Yet, he did not get how serious the little might have been. Even he could not think that such a little first-year primary school girl may have the insight and the readiness to think of what love would mean. He answered her silently with a very brotherly smile. In that time it was too early for him to consider seriously such a socially stressed issue such as love or marriage. He went on studying his lessons, getting a bit closer to his goal of brilliance and meanwhile overcoming his ordinary personal and social obstacles.

A few years later, while he was to finish his university degree, he learnt that the daughter of his former good neighbor has entered the same prestigious faculty as that he has just finished. Of course, her good news cheered him, while as an idealistic and sensitive newcomer he was struggling in the beginning of his practical life. As time passed and he got a bit more mature, the life conqueror thinks it was his first lesson in love that had been given by the daughter of his good neighbor, the 6 years little girl at that time.

The idea of religion

the idea of religion
A religion is sometimes thought of as a sum of rituals and believes with varying impact on the running of daily life. According to religious provisions one may select from a wide panel of life trends including marriage, outlook, interests, values and food. The presetting of a magnificent Creator and supra-human will is also sometimes a great concern of religious belief. As a mere kind of inspiration, religion may not surpass being an idea that long tackled the human intellect and spirit.
Being “religious” on such definition may denote a sort of discipline and order. It may entail also a given appreciable standard of good values, morals, passion and reasoning. A religion could be an adoption of respect and creative attitude to restrain a natural tendency to shallowness and recession. Remedies, free time, jobbing, social life, beautiful surrounding and healthy food are basic life-issues that may be influenced by religious believes.
In this vision, religion is not a mere set of obligations and restrictions but more a system that cares about and ensures an effective and harmonized performance and proper out-shaping of human needs and capabilities. Indeed, religion is concerned with perception, science and justice. Science can be an approach to justify a given religious belief that in turn encourages scientfic perception of life in the best proved human experience. Justice, on the other hand, is the almost indispensible common factor in a religion that praises peace, forgiveness and perfection.

Love is made

Love is a sweet sensation that makes every burden and effort as pleasant and joyful as wandering in a beautiful green park with trees and perfumed fresh air. Love is a basic need for everyone, a feeling of being precious, unique and wonderful to somebody. It means also a vision of beauty, peace and perfection everywhere. I think that successful and great people have all experienced great love as they were inspired their amazingly fine visions. In this regard, a rule may prove right that is the more one loves, the better and finer one becomes.

Love is not gifted or found. It would then be a matter of chance whether one loves or not or whether one is loved or not.  But love is to be made and looked after in all consciousness and with all care and for all the time. Waiting for a reward for one’s love by being loved back is a shallow idea about love. This is because the direct and soon reward for love is that satisfaction and relief one has on making an obscure love evident. Being loved back is quite unforeseen and may need long times to ensue. Love expression is a skill that one should discover, learn and further. It entails many characters and principles like praising high morals, faith, respect, courage, and self-confidence.